just read this girl's blog. naomi neo?? apparently she's quite famous. and she's only 16! haha. 16 is like 5yrs ago for me sia. so so so long.
anyway i was looking through her blog and she keeps complaining that she's ugly and so flawed. but in all her photos she looks damn chio. and she doesnt look her age at all! she looks older than 16 leh. and i think there r a lot of ppl bitching abt her online coz she keeps saying that she's ugly and all that. and she doesnt accept compliments at all.
even though i'm like bitch please, if u r ugly then what am I? hideous?? and so is a lot of girls in this world. but come to think of it i kind of understand how she feels also. probably insecured abt her looks and all that. it's natural to feel this way i guess. most ppl like to compare themselves to others better than them. cant possibly compare with ppl who r worst right? if not how to improve? and there is nothing wrong in wanting to look better and prettier although u r already pretty to begin with. isnt it human nature to constantly want to improve? she's like pretty and quite skinny but she sees herself as very flawed. i think she just wants to become even prettier than her present state lah. cannot blame her what. everyone wants to be better looking right?
it's like how i always look at the photos of super hot and pretty girls and i will be like wondering how is it to be as pretty as them. and of coz i will feel like i wanna be better looking right. quite impossible to be as pretty as them without plastic surgery. haha. but at least a bit more up to standard when compared to them lah. when i look at all the pretty girls i will feel like some ugly shit right and i really think it's not wrong to want to be better. so i really think that shldnt blame her from criticising herself.
ok but the thing that i'm quite puzzled is why she post so many photos of herself if she thinks she's ugly? like so weird?? she said that it's because there r bound to be some photos of urself that's nice but it doesnt mean u r pretty. doesnt seem like a sound argument to me. haha. why u post photos that u take of urself which shows ur face and all that when u think u r ugly? if u keep taking photos of urself and there r pretty photos THAT MEANS U R NOT UGLY ALREADY WHAT. so i dont understand this part. ppl who think they r ugly will nv take so many self taken photos of themselves. it's like when i'm ugly i will nv post up photos of my face or take a picture of myself then write OH NO I'M LOOKING SO UGLY TODAY. LOOK AT MY UGLY FACE! like seriously?? why will i want other ppl to look at me being ugly? when u take a photo of urself is that u want ppl to look at the nice and better side of u right. so for me i will never post up ugly photos of myself. i dont even post a lot of self taken photos. haha. coz not a lot of my photos look nice arh. the woes of being ugly! sooo i think she's probably fishing for compliments in this aspect.
but i really think cant blame her for thinking this way though. it's not like ppl give out compliments easily and generously in our society. i guess we criticise ppl more than we compliment them that's why some girls like to fish for compliments because no one ever says nice things to them!
i guess it's the way our soceity works today lah. everyone is superficial and wants to become prettier and better.
anyway i was looking through her blog and she keeps complaining that she's ugly and so flawed. but in all her photos she looks damn chio. and she doesnt look her age at all! she looks older than 16 leh. and i think there r a lot of ppl bitching abt her online coz she keeps saying that she's ugly and all that. and she doesnt accept compliments at all.
even though i'm like bitch please, if u r ugly then what am I? hideous?? and so is a lot of girls in this world. but come to think of it i kind of understand how she feels also. probably insecured abt her looks and all that. it's natural to feel this way i guess. most ppl like to compare themselves to others better than them. cant possibly compare with ppl who r worst right? if not how to improve? and there is nothing wrong in wanting to look better and prettier although u r already pretty to begin with. isnt it human nature to constantly want to improve? she's like pretty and quite skinny but she sees herself as very flawed. i think she just wants to become even prettier than her present state lah. cannot blame her what. everyone wants to be better looking right?
it's like how i always look at the photos of super hot and pretty girls and i will be like wondering how is it to be as pretty as them. and of coz i will feel like i wanna be better looking right. quite impossible to be as pretty as them without plastic surgery. haha. but at least a bit more up to standard when compared to them lah. when i look at all the pretty girls i will feel like some ugly shit right and i really think it's not wrong to want to be better. so i really think that shldnt blame her from criticising herself.
ok but the thing that i'm quite puzzled is why she post so many photos of herself if she thinks she's ugly? like so weird?? she said that it's because there r bound to be some photos of urself that's nice but it doesnt mean u r pretty. doesnt seem like a sound argument to me. haha. why u post photos that u take of urself which shows ur face and all that when u think u r ugly? if u keep taking photos of urself and there r pretty photos THAT MEANS U R NOT UGLY ALREADY WHAT. so i dont understand this part. ppl who think they r ugly will nv take so many self taken photos of themselves. it's like when i'm ugly i will nv post up photos of my face or take a picture of myself then write OH NO I'M LOOKING SO UGLY TODAY. LOOK AT MY UGLY FACE! like seriously?? why will i want other ppl to look at me being ugly? when u take a photo of urself is that u want ppl to look at the nice and better side of u right. so for me i will never post up ugly photos of myself. i dont even post a lot of self taken photos. haha. coz not a lot of my photos look nice arh. the woes of being ugly! sooo i think she's probably fishing for compliments in this aspect.
but i really think cant blame her for thinking this way though. it's not like ppl give out compliments easily and generously in our society. i guess we criticise ppl more than we compliment them that's why some girls like to fish for compliments because no one ever says nice things to them!
i guess it's the way our soceity works today lah. everyone is superficial and wants to become prettier and better.
posted by LOIS at
12:04 AM
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